#16 - The Prayer God Answers – Aligning Desires with His Will (1 John 3:21-22)

What does 1 John 3:22 mean when Scripture promises, “Whatever we ask we receive from Him”? In this thought-provoking episode of Navigate The Way ✝️, Gabe Langston and Dave Brooks delve into 1 John 3:21-22, unpacking its profound truths about confidence before God, obedience, and the transformative power of prayer aligned with His will. Together, they explore the immediate context, theological depth, and practical applications of this passage, offering insights to enrich your prayer life and deepen your walk with Christ.

If you’ve ever wrestled with unanswered prayers or wondered how to align your desires with God’s purposes, this episode is for you. Discover how to cultivate a heart that pleases God, pray boldly, and live in the joy of communion with our sovereign, loving Father. Don’t miss this journey into the Word, and be sure to like, subscribe, and share!

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Transcript

### Gabe Langston: 
Hello, friends! Welcome to Navigate The Way, the podcast where we plunge deep into Scripture to uncover its timeless truths for our lives. I’m Gabe Langston, one of your co-hosts, and I’m thrilled you’ve joined us today. Before we dive in, be sure to like, subscribe, and share this episode with others hungry for God’s Word. 

Today, we’ll be unpacking a question from Sarah Hallum, who nominated First John chapter 3 verses 21 through 22 as our focal passage. She asks, "What exactly does the text mean when it says, 'whatever we ask we receive from Him'?" Let’s explore this intriguing and profound claim, but first, let’s hear from my co-host, Dave. Dave, would you mind starting us off with a bit of context?

### Dave Brooks:
Thanks for asking, Gabe. I’m Dave Brooks, and it’s great to be with you all for another episode of Navigate The Way. First John chapter 3 verses 21 through 22 reads as follows:  

"Beloved, if our heart does not condemn us, we have confidence before God; and whatever we ask we receive from Him, because we keep His commandments and do the things that are pleasing in His sight."

To grasp the depth of this passage, we need to consider its place within the larger context of First John, the epistle’s overarching themes, and its immediate setting. John’s first letter emphasizes fellowship with God, assurance of salvation, and the evidence of a transformed life through love and obedience. Here, he’s focusing on a believer’s confidence before God, which arises from a clear conscience and a life aligned with His will. Gabe, where should we go from here?

### Gabe Langston:  
Great overview, Dave. Let’s zero in on the immediate literary context. Just prior, in verses 18 through 20, John exhorts believers to love not merely in words but in deeds, emphasizing that genuine love is a hallmark of knowing the truth. He adds that when our hearts condemn us, God is greater than our hearts and knows all things. This sets up today’s passage by transitioning from a discussion of self-reflection and reassurance to one of confidence before God.  

So, Dave, how does this idea of a "condemning heart" tie into the broader theological implications of confidence and answered prayer?

### Dave Brooks:  
That’s a rich thread to pull, Gabe. John contrasts a condemning heart with the freedom found in a clear conscience. In the Greek, the word translated "condemn" is kataginoskō, meaning to know something against oneself or to accuse internally. It suggests that an inner awareness of sin or disobedience can hinder confidence in prayer. However, when a believer walks in obedience and love, their conscience aligns with God’s will, enabling boldness before Him.  

This confidence, the Greek word parrēsia, is not arrogance but assurance rooted in Christ’s work and the believer’s relationship with Him. Gabe, what do you make of the promise that "whatever we ask we receive from Him"?

### Gabe Langston:  
The phrase is staggering, isn’t it? But it’s crucial to interpret it properly. This isn’t a blank check for selfish desires. The conditional clause, "because we keep His commandments and do the things that are pleasing in His sight," is pivotal. John is pointing to a relationship so attuned to God’s will that the believer’s prayers naturally align with His purposes.  

Theologically, this resonates with passages like John chapter 15 verse 7, where Jesus says, "If you abide in Me, and My words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you." Dave, how does this fit into the redemptive-historical narrative?

### Dave Brooks:  
Excellent connection, Gabe. Redemptively, this passage reflects the restoration of fellowship between God and humanity through Christ. In the garden of Eden, Adam and Eve’s disobedience severed that intimate communion, including their confidence before God. Christ, as the second Adam, restores what was lost by reconciling us to the Father.  

The promise of answered prayer here is a glimpse of the ultimate restoration when all things will align perfectly with God’s will in the new heavens and new earth. Until then, this assurance points to the transformative power of grace in the believer’s life. What about the practical implications for daily prayer, Gabe?

### Gabe Langston:  
Great question. Practically, this passage invites believers to examine their motives and actions. Are we living in obedience, seeking to please God, and aligning our prayers with His will? James chapter 4 verse 3 warns that selfish prayers go unanswered: "You ask and do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, so that you may spend it on your pleasures."  

In contrast, a life devoted to God’s commandments and pleasing Him fosters a prayer life characterized by alignment with His purposes, resulting in answered prayers that glorify Him. Dave, can you shed light on the broader canonical context of this promise?

### Dave Brooks:  
Certainly, Gabe. Across Scripture, the theme of answered prayer is consistently tied to alignment with God’s will. Consider Psalm chapter 37 verse 4: "Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart." When we delight in Him, our desires conform to His, and our prayers reflect that transformation.  

Additionally, passages like Philippians chapter 4 verses 6 through 7 emphasize prayer as a means of accessing God’s peace, even if the specific answer isn’t what we expect. These themes underscore that prayer isn’t about manipulating God but about communion with Him. Gabe, what can we glean from church history on this topic?

### Gabe Langston:  
Throughout church history, saints have emphasized the transformative power of prayer aligned with God’s will. Augustine, for instance, viewed prayer as a way of conforming our desires to God’s purposes. In his Confessions, he wrote, "You have made us for Yourself, O Lord, and our heart is restless until it rests in You."  

The Reformers, too, stressed that answered prayer flows from a heart seeking God’s glory above all. Calvin’s Institutes famously described prayer as "the chief exercise of faith." This historical perspective reinforces the biblical principle that effective prayer stems from obedience and communion with God. Dave, how do we apply this in pastoral care?

### Dave Brooks:  
In pastoral care, this passage offers both comfort and challenge. For the struggling believer, it reassures them of God’s grace and His desire to hear and respond to their prayers. However, it also encourages self-examination. Are there areas of unrepentant sin or disobedience that need addressing?  

As a pastor or counselor, guiding someone to cultivate a heart that seeks God’s will above personal desires can transform their prayer life and deepen their faith. Gabe, how might we equip believers to engage this passage apologetically in conversations about prayer?

### Gabe Langston:  
That’s a critical angle, Dave. Skeptics often see passages like this as evidence that prayer "doesn’t work." Equipping believers with a proper understanding is key. We can point out that the promise of answered prayer is conditional on obedience and alignment with God’s will, not a guarantee of selfish desires being met.  

Additionally, apologetics often involves addressing misconceptions. Prayer isn’t a transaction; it’s relational. When framed this way, it provides an opportunity to share the gospel with others, showing how prayer flows out of a relationship with a sovereign, loving God. Dave, how do we cultivate spiritual formation from this text?

### Dave Brooks:  
Spiritual formation begins with internalizing the truth of this passage. Confidence before God arises from a clear conscience, so fostering daily habits of confession, repentance, and obedience is foundational. Moreover, cultivating a heart that seeks to please God transforms both our actions and our prayers.  

Encouraging believers to meditate on Scripture, like Psalm chapter 19 verse 14, which says, "Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O Lord," aligns their lives with God’s will and enhances their prayer life. Gabe, how does this passage speak to contemporary culture?

### Gabe Langston:  
In a culture obsessed with instant gratification, this passage offers a countercultural view of prayer as a relationship, not a vending machine. It challenges the notion that God exists to serve human desires, emphasizing instead that we exist to glorify Him.  

Practically, it calls believers to model a life of dependence on God, showing the world that true satisfaction comes not from receiving everything we want but from aligning our desires with His. Dave, how would you wrap this up?

### Dave Brooks:  
This passage challenges us to examine our hearts and align our lives with God’s will. Confidence in prayer is a gift that flows from obedience, love, and a clear conscience. It’s a reminder that God is glorified when our prayers reflect His purposes.  

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